Conclusion
The science of sex has gone through years of trials and tribulations. Researchers have been trying to understand what happens between two partners in bed for decades by studying, recording and comparing physiological processes to learn more about:
- How an orgasm occurs.
- Why an erection disappears.
- What signals a woman’s arousal.
Their discoveries are not only scientifically significant but also practical and can give partners an entirely new sexual experience. Understanding how the body works — that of our own and our partner’s — can improve our personal lives.
Scientific observations confirm that although physical parameters are essential, they are not decisive; for example, a larger distance between the clitoris and vagina does not mean the woman cannot experience a vaginal orgasm. Desire, atmosphere, emotions, and fantasies can override the influence of physiology and elevate sex to a new level. After all, sex is not just physical contact; it’s also the emotional connection between partners built outside the bedroom. Just imagine how your relationship can change if you share with your partner what you like and don’t like about sex. We can’t read each other’s minds, but we can turn the bedroom into our laboratory and curiously explore our desires.
Try this:
- Talk to your partner about sex. Ask what he likes and share your fantasies.
- Think about what turns you on and creates a special atmosphere for sexual pleasure.
- During sex, focus on what’s happening. Don’t judge how you look; think about how you feel.
- Remember, you can always talk to a sexologist or a psychotherapist if you’re dissatisfied with your sexual life.
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